
"Lonely is the soul who cannot forgive. For when you hold something against another you hold it against yourself and isolate yourself. When you are angry with someone, you withhold that which is of value to you, the positive qualities of being, from that person. What happens when you do this? As long as you are withholding that which is beautiful, valuable, and wonderful from the other person, you cannot give it to yourself either. Try it and see what happens.
As we forgive others, so we are forgiven.
Forgiving begins with your willingness to give to spirit regardless of what condition it is in.
Forgiveness doesn't demand that you condone what others do; you only need to give willingly to the life within them, which is the same one life within you. Each time you forgive, you heal the spirit trapped within the action and the person.
Often we resist forgiving for fear that, in forgiving, the hurtful experience may be repeated. In truth, however, it is only in forgiving that we cull the wisdom from our experience and, once the lesson is learned, we need not repeat it."
You Are the Answer by Michael Tamura
Francis of Assisi:
Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy;
O divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek
To be consoled as to console,
To be understood as to understand,
To be loved as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive;
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
It is in dying to self that we are born to eternal life.
1 comment:
Bravo.
I would take this a bit deeper.
You can forgive a person for being human (ie a liar, a cheater, a pain in the ass) because the human condition is a never ending mystery and some people are just not very strong, good people.
However, in forgiving a person for being human, and thus subject to weakness, you don't have to let them back into your life (in your mind, in your heart, or physically in your presence) what you need to forgive is yourself first.
Most likely pissed-off thoughts about someone are geared more towards the idea that you can't believe you allowed yourself to be treated that way. People project their anger onto a person, when really they are angry at themselves for feeling "fooled".
I say call a douchebag a douchebag. No harm in that. You can forgive them for being weak-hearted, or weak-minded, but you don't need to put yourself in their company.
Then, forgive yourself. You are magical and sometimes we all step in shit. ;)
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